So, I'm single. Now, to some, this is a death sentence. How can one not survive without a significant other? Not even a crush? If you don't have a boyfriend/girlfriend, then you should be actively pursuing one. Wait? You're okay with being single? How could you be okay with being alone?
Well, there are a few reasons. For example:
1. I get to be...wait for it...selfish!
Yes! I get the magic of only worrying about myself. Of course, I worry about my friends and family and how they may view me, but, generally, my life is usually controlled by my wants and decisions. I get the magic of being able to focus solely on myself and my goals. Now who wouldn't want that?
2. I have more time to do important things like schoolwork or write or find a job.
Thanks to my lack of distracting relationships, I now get the chance to make important stuff like school and activities and writing my sole focus. I don't have to sit there and spend my life daydreaming about a guy or praying that they'll respond to my text. Instead, I get to actually get my stuff done. (Trust me, when I get a crush, I get a crush. It's kind of ridiculous.)
3. I don't have to worry about if my significant other is jealous!
It's quite relaxing when you get to just talk to whoever you want, make close friendships, and not worry about someone getting jealous and it's a lot less mental strain when I don't have to feel jealous that a significant other is chatting with another girl more than me. It's relaxing. Plus, I can occasionally stretch my flirting muscles. ;)
Well, that's all I can think of right now, but, for me, those are the most important reasons and are the ones that make being single worth it. Happy Writing!
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